If you want to learn how to use the law of attraction on love, then you are in for a treat today.
In this article, I am going to list down some super powerful techniques that you can put into practice and get ready to attract love into your life.
Whether you want to manifest a soulmate or just want to make your life even better by inviting more love in all aspects of your life; these techniques will help you out.
1) See yourself as a vessel for universal energy
Before you open yourself to attract love into your life, the most important thing to do is to get rid of all the hatred/guilt/shame or any other negative feeling residing inside you.
Consider yourself a vessel for universal vibrations and feelings.
If the vessel is already filled with lower vibrations, will it have any space for love?
Of Course not.
So, it’s crucial that you first release all the negative vibrations and clean your vessel carefully.
Once the lower frequencies have been wiped out, there will be clean space for love to come in and thrive.
How to clean your vessel?
There are so many small daily rituals you can do that will wipe out all the negativity from your system.
But I am going to tell you about my 2 favorite methods.
You can use one or both of them simultaneously for a few weeks and you will see a huge difference in the way you feel.
First method – Meditation:
Meditating daily is a fantastic tool to clear your soul of any negativity.
Think of meditation as a detox for your mind and feelings.
Start meditating for at least 15 minutes everyday.
You can meditate in silence just focusing on your breath or you can put on any short guided meditation from youtube and follow the instructions.
If you have never meditated before, it may seem difficult and pointless at first.
But if you keep at it for a few days, you will see the infinite rewards and won’t be able to leave the practice. That’s a promise!
Second method – Affirmations:
The second method is to use Affirmations for cleansing negative energy.
Repeat these affirmations daily for at least seven days.
Make these words your go to statements whenever you feel any negativity surrounding you.
Whenever you are alone or free, start chanting this mantra.
I now release all the negative energy from my past, present and future.
I release all my worries and stresses.
I cut all the negative energetic cords I have with people, places and situations now.
I release all the clogged emotions and feelings.
I am a clean soul.
I am a pure soul.
I am a divine soul.
I am now open to miracles in my life.
I am now ready to receive all my desires.
I am ready to receive infinite love.
Me & my loved ones are surrounded by a divine light that is guiding, nourishing and protecting us at all times.
I am so grateful for my fabulous life.
If you are listening to me then rock my world with the most beautiful & unexpected experiences.
I love you.
I love you.
I love you.
2) Get to know and love yourself first
To start attracting love in your life, you have to love yourself first.
I know this sounds cliche but it’s 10000% true.
Love begins with you.
If you cannot love yourself, how can you expect someone else to love you?
So, before you set out on your quest for finding love; make sure you are in love with your own self.
Be your own best friend first.
Love yourself like a mother loves her child — unconditionally and eternally.
Forgive yourself for the mistakes you have made.
Forgive yourself for your imperfections and focus on your strengths.
A great trick to self-love is to write about things you like about yourself in a journal.
Everyday write at least 10 things you love about yourself and your current life.
Within a few days, you will see a shift in your psychology.
You will start accepting yourself and won’t be too hard on yourself for anything you do wrong.
That is the beginning of the beautiful life long journey of self-love.
You must always remember that the longest relationship you are ever going to have is with your own self, so it’s your duty to tend to it first and foremost.
Once you fix this relationship, all other things will fall into place without effort.
3) Make a list of attributes you want in your partner
If you want to manifest a soulmate into your life, then it’s very important that you get clear on what kind of a person you want to attract.
Until and unless you are super clear on what you want, the universe cannot give it to you.
So take it upon yourself to get a super clear idea of what you want.
Write down all the qualities you want in your partner on a piece of paper and keep it safe.
Visit this list often so that the list gets imprinted on your subconscious and it can start creating what you want in the physical form.
Also don’t worry if you cannot think of all the qualities/attributes you want to manifest at one time.
Instead make it an editable list.
Also once you set on this path of manifesting your soulmate, the universe will slowly reveal to you the qualities you want.
It’s a process of self-discovery.
With time you will get more and more clear about what kind of a person you exactly want to manifest.
There are thousands of ways the universe will inspire you.
Maybe you will see a movie and would like the physique of the actor/actress. That would spark a desire to have a soulmate that has the same body structure.
Or you may see your best friend fighting with her boyfriend over something and that would make you realize that that is one problem you would never want to experience in your own romantic relationship.
So, the degree of clarity would increase with time and experiences.
You gotta be patient with yourself in the meanwhile and instead just focus on coming up with a list that most accurately depicts the kind of person you want to manifest in your life.
4) Use Ho’oponopono prayer often
If you already are in a relationship and want to improve it then you have to use the magical Hawaiian prayer — the Ho’opono pono prayer.
The Ho’oponopono prayer is an ancient prayer that has been in use for thousands of years by the Hawaiian natives for forgiveness and clearing any negative energy from their lives and relationships.
The Ho’oponopono prayer goes like:
I love you.
I am sorry.
Please forgive me.
This prayer is so powerful because it uses the energy of love to clean out the negativity and the problems.
Whenever you are having any problems with your partner, this is hands down the best prayer to use.
Set an intention to clean that particular relation of the negativity and start chanting the prayer over and over again.
It is best to chant this prayer whenever any worrying thoughts about the relationship comes into your mind.
This way you are immediately changing the negative energy related to that relationship into a higher frequency of love and gratitude.
Also, the element of gratitude in the Ho’oponopono prayer makes it even more effective.
So, if you are showing your gratitude for your perfect relationship in advance then there is no way that the “perfect relationship” in your head will not translate into physical reality.
Things to remember while manifesting love with the Law of Attraction:
- Don’t get impatient about it not coming. The moment you become impatient, you are sending out vibrations of lack and hopelessness into the field. That will attract more situations to make you feel more hopeless.
- Work on yourself and forget about manifesting love for a while. When you will become the best version of yourself and become whole on your own; the love you are seeking will come into your life without any effort. I know that sounds contradictory but that’s how it works!
- Don’t fixate yourself on a specific person. Some people are too stubborn about manifesting one particular individual and by doing so they are shutting all other beautiful possibilities that the universe can work out for them. You have to have a complete faith in the universe that it will give you the best partner you deserve. So, let go of that stubbornness and neediness. It doesn’t suit you.
- Always stay in a state of gratitude. Gratitude is the trick to getting all your desires manifested easily and effortlessly. So, try staying in a state of gratitude for as many waking hours as possible. Be thankful for even the simplest things like the computer or mobile you are reading this post on or your ability to be able to see.